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Reality Strategy

Understand how your mind decides what feels true.

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01

How do I know this belief is true?

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02

What do I see, hear, or feel that proves it?

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03

Could I interpret these signs in a different way?

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“Truth is how your mind chooses to see reality.”

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Reality strategy

how your mind decides that’s true

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Reality Strategy pattern

Question what feels real — find new truth.

Definition

Every belief feels true because of how we experience it — through what we see, hear, or feel.

The Reality Strategy pattern helps you notice how your mind decides something is real.

By questioning your inner “proof,” you can open space for a more supportive, empowering truth.

How it works

When you question how your mind ‘proves’ the belief, it becomes easier to replace it with a more supportive truth.

Relationships

Limiting thought: “If they loved me, they’d always agree with me.”

Reframed: “Love isn’t about agreement — it’s about respect, even when we think differently.”

Work

Limiting thought:“I’m not good at presentations because I feel nervous.”

Reframed: “Feeling nervous just means I care — it doesn’t prove I’m bad at it.”

Health

Limiting thought: “I feel tired, so I must be unhealthy.”

Reframe: “Tiredness can also mean I’ve worked hard — rest is part of health.”

Learning & Growth

Limiting thought: “If I make mistakes, it means I’m failing.”

Reframe: “Mistakes show I’m learning — that’s proof I’m improving, not failing.”

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